15 Universal truth you must know

Are you letting the smallest hurdle stop you from going further?

In this world, you and I are very aware of the daily ups and downs that faces us.

Whether you are feeling hopeless or giving up on yourself.

These 15 simple and profound truths will help you refocus as situations trample upon you.

• If you don't heal a wound from the past, it will bleed all over your future. Letting go of your past is a must!
• We don't stop playing because we get old, we get old because we stop playing. It is important to always give yourself time to have fun and, to let go of the need to be serious all the time.

• The people that doubt us, either define us or drive us. There will always be people that don't believe in us, people that will criticize us and, people that will try to bring us down. We must let it drive us and not define us.

• You are never too old or too young to start anything. We hear people say this all the time, but we must ignore them and our own negative thoughts.

• If you are not ready to lift people up, don't pull them down with your negativity.

• Never judge a moment, good or bad!

• The challenges we face and the tough times in life we have... only make our stories better.

• Every delay has a blessing, be patient!

• Happiness and success are two different things. It is possible to have one without the other. But it's up to you on how you define them.

• Spend more time focusing on strengths rather than your weaknesses.

• If you are rejected, don't keep knocking on the same door, don't sit at the door. Turn around and look at the other doors behind you. The right one will open.

• The universe works for us, not to us. The universe wants us to live our purpose.

• You are exactly where you need to be right now!

• Everything in the universe is giving, the sun gives light, the earth gives water and the plants give fruits. The process of the universe is to give. The more we give, the more we will receive.

• To manage ego, focus on your next dream and what you need to achieve. rather than getting fixated and focused on what you have achieved. Chasing a bigger dream will manage your ego.

I hope after reading this you have realized that facts are undeniable and you are not alone in this.

While you feed your brain, don't forget to share with your family and friends!

Thanks for stopping by!

9 Practices on How to Empower Yourself

In today's post, I want to share my experience on how traversed the road to empowerment.

Over the ten-plus year period of my life. I faced many ups and downs while passing through this era of constant challenges.

Too many tell in this post!

I had to nurture and build my self-esteem and, manifest into an empowering man.

These tips are what helped me shape the person I am today. So I thought of sharing with you might help you find the essential strengths to become empowered.

Are you empowering yourself for the life ahead?

If not, what is stopping you?

Now, you should focus on how to empower yourself after answering those questions.

First, allow me to clearly define the word empowerment.

What is Empowerment?

Empowerment according to the Cambridge dictionary means the process of gaining freedom and power to do what you want or to control what happens to you. 

In practical terms, you are taking control of your own life, setting goals and making positive choices.

Note, believing in yourself is key to empowerment.

Why you need to empower yourself?

As this question comes to mind, how do you answer it?

Briefly read these benefits below and you will clearly understand the importance of why you need to be empowered. 

• Empowerment gives you control and direction to make the changes and succeed in the things you believe in
• Being personally empowered, you have more developed confidence and strength to inspire others
• As you begin to empower yourself, these will be established and habitual as you go along, Values, skills, knowledge, and goals
• Self-empowered persons who dwell in community groups, gain more trust than those who are not

How to empower yourself?

The knowledge and skills you acquire must be utilized in a way, that not only fishes your goals but awakes those around you. 

In the past, the struggle for self, women, youth and social empowerment failed to scale. 

I agree that it is not as prevalent as back then, but the existing percentage that still breath air, must be completely destroyed. 

Until you're ready to push forward, this paradigm will not cease to change.

These are ways how you can guide yourself to empowerment:

# 1:Believe in yourself - believing in your ability to accomplish your goals and dreams, it will help you to follow through the hardships. 

Envision your self to be what you want to be. Of course, some things are not in our control, but if you prioritize your goals and consistently put your every effort into making it a reality, then nothing is impossible. 

When the odds are defying against you, you break down the wall and reach for your target.

# 2:Taking the initial step - It's always difficult to take that first leap. Be whatever it is, the fears and the what if's keeps filling up your mind. 

My vulnerability was driven by the need to improve my standard of living. 

I didn't have a choice to focus on the perception of others, instead, I stood up, tried, failed, learned and raised again.

One important lesson I learned was that as much as you want success, it will not appear overnight. A little bit every day will eventually pave the way to the mountain you want to reach.

True empowerment begins with thought, effort and it certainly follows through.


# 3:Be ready to give your all - the tantalizing thoughts on your mind relating to your goals have always majorly affected the way you act upon and the amount of input you throw-in.

Even when that devasting moment hits you, be ready to do your best.

Going beyond the boundary lines pushes you further to develop the courage to face the hurdles that lie ahead.


# 4:Keep learning and updating yourself - the more you educate yourself on everything happening. The more capable you are of taking on discussions, thus exposing your potential.

The world is changing rapidly, why should you be stuck in one place?

Use your spare time to read a book, browse the internet on world issues, join a community, etc


# 5:Make yourself independent - Your independence plays the main role when impacting yourself and others.

Self-dependent is when you are being able to provide basic necessities for yourself, being able to claim your rights and speak for yourself and behalf of others.

Because, you are in your safe and stable space, you don't need to rely on anyone.


# 6:Reflection and positive affirmation - looking back at your accomplishments and positively acknowledging them, fuels that attitude of success and motivation.

Suppressing the bad incident and replacing them at the end of the day, makes way for progress.  Journaling becomes a priority when you start seeing the benefits of doing it.

Being thankful for the little things is a small but powerful step you can practice to keep the fire burning within you.


# 7:Being involved in community and groups - it is said, many heads are better than one. Engaging with a group of people enables greater power to impact on a higher level.

An important factor in a community is collectively working together for a  greater purpose.

Thus harnessing empowerment for yourself and the wider community as well.


# 8:Be resilient and avoid discouragement - success blossom when persistence and perseverance are following in abundance.

Have a reminder that whatever you are working for, doesn't happen in a jiffy.

People will try their best to cajole you into the limiting beliefs that it's not possible.

Whatever happens, once you are grounded and focus, nothing can stop you from winning.

Watering the garden of flowers instead of weeds, while ultimately blossom into positivity.


# 9:Power of self-love and positive energy - like motivation is the food to keep you going, self-love is the nutrients you need to maintain the inner being.

Empowerment is not just taking on responsibilities, it is also knowing you need to love and rejuvenate yourself.

Replenishing your energy through meditation, self-care, exercise, etc. Strengthen the internal energy that gives you the resilience not to give up. More here

Conclusion

Now you are in for some practice!

There is always a way, for those who have the will power to break through the barriers.

These 9 how to dos, will not only influence a change in you but also plant the seed in others' minds as well.

As you use these to progress towards empowerment, don't forget to share so it can reach as many as can.

3 Pillars to the Staircase of your Success!

Success isn't always about greatness. It's about consistency. Consistent hard work leads to success. Greatness will come. Dwayne Johnson

Do you ever feel like giving up on your dreams?

Have you ever thought about what is causing you to, or holding you back?

Are you reluctant to solve it or letting them drift away with the wind?

If this is you then these three pillars are what you need to help you reach your pinnacle peek.

Let me briefly share my story of how I won the battle to success.

As a teenager growing up, I always wanted to be a successful articulated speaker.

Someone, who speaks with confidence and uses my voice together with my experiences to change the mindset and habits of others for a better life.

The society in which I reside is less developed. due to many reasons.

One main reason is being the people be unaware of their rights and the little actions they can do to have a productive life.

For years, I fall and rise. I tried again and tried again to spread valuable knowledge with the hope that people with listen and start living a meaningful life instead of a rat race one.

It was and still a difficult one, but I didn't give up nor I will ever do.

Looking back at all the struggles and challenges, there is no doubt that it was a test and the lesson followed behind.

There is no doubt that every success will require hard work and dedication.

For these very reasons, I want to share the three pillars that keep me on the tracks.

Without these, I couldn't have been grateful for all that I have achieved today.

Pillars to the Staircase of Success

Consistency - Continuously putting every piece of work needed to take you to your heights. The Small steps taken now is the path you're slowly building towards your destination.

Some of us have, an on and off switch. Today you are all pumped up and ready to throw all your time and efforts, then come tomorrow, you are making excuses and doing the opposite of it. Read here

A typical example we all make is that we start working on that one specific thing and after seeing no progress, we give in to failure. Success doesn't happen overnight. Remember this!

Patience - As you pave your path slowly and steadily. Teach yourself the importance of having patience.

Success is not overnight but takes time to see light. With determination and the bricks laid out, be sure to stop, breath and observe that your energy needs to be balanced.

Every successful person must be self-control and persistent towards those goals/dreams.

For those who wait, while working against the odds, good things will come. Don't be disheartened. Art of being patience


Discipline - Your choices are you, you chose the negative things then obviously your results will be the same.

Sticking to the commitment you have made, positive things will take you to what you deserve after all the dedication and hard work you put into it. Read more

For example, consciously being aware of good and bad things. The more we are plugged in and self-focused, the more the negative things will stride.

Getting ahead in life is like building a superstructure, these small steps will eventually construct that building you want.

The more assertive you are, the better chances you have of conquering the inevitable.

Conclusion

As you practice these, don't forget to analyze it at the end of the day.

Check your progress after you try these out. I guarantee that it will work for you just like it did for me.

However, I would like for you to experiment with these before concluding that it's not for you or wouldn't work.

What worked for me, might not work for you, we all have different strengths that keep us going forward.

But what is there to lose, if you give these a try? I would love to hear your opinion and your end result in the comment box below.

Conceding that it works well, don't forget to share with others. I love the concept of sharing what I have learned with others, it makes so much of a difference.

In close to all being said, winning doesn't come by luck, hard work and dedication are vital for you to accomplish your goals and dreams.

Thank you for stopping by and happy readings!

Why read this and how it will benefit you?

Dear readers, welcome to my opening post to you.

I will be helping you see a better version of yourself.

Which is the utmost importance for you and me to perform to our best ability and potential?

These practices are the simplest and most effective ways you include in your daily routine.

You must be wondering, how can I be so sure about this?

Speaking from all my experiences and how I fought through them.

My methods and techniques will be based on those particular situations which I faced.

 Read now on how to benefit?

For you to understand the importance of wisdom, you must first realize the need for it, and which area of your life you will need to invest in.

Some of you do not possess theoretical knowledge but are more effective practically. Which it totally fine!

In most instances, a lack of solid-based information disables you to act or respond effectively, whenever faced with a new task or unexpected situations.

The lessons which I will be giving are 90% reality of which I endured along my journey, since being a 5-year-old kid who migrated to the Captial city New Delhi.

Whenever I would reflect on all the trials and tribulations, I'm always thankful, they came to me and I grew through them.

I fought through most of it alone, a few of my friends were there and I'm ever so grateful for them.

My challenges and disasters tough me to dig deeper and find answers. What I need to do and how to do it and, in the best way I can. My my, those days I can still recall as I write this first blog to you all.

Today, I'm a proud entrepreneur of my Patel Classes, a full-time teacher, a motivational speaker, and a socialist.

I do hope sharing all I have experienced and learned throughout my years will help to inspire that change you want to see.

Don't be misguided by the education system, that the strategies it provided are but the only way to a successful life.

You wouldn't see any further until you find new discoveries.

Allow me to brief you about the facts of wisdom and how beneficial it can prove to be.

What is Wisdom?

According to the Cambridge dictionary, wisdom is defined, precisely as the ability to use your knowledge and experience to make good decisions and judgments accordingly.

In my own terms, it is the knowledge or lessons we are taught when we have experiences from whatever problems we have gone through. 

Moreso, it is how we use all that we have gained to make better decisions when situations confront us. 

Types of Wisdom

How many of you know that wisdom has categories? 

I didn't until I thoroughly researched and found out all about it.

You wouldn't want to skip this, all are briefly explained below. 

So next time you are asked about wisdom, surprise those with the types and how they can use it in their life.

• Godly Wisdom
• Earthly Wisdom
• Satanic Wisdom

Godly wisdom - refers to the spiritual scriptures of god. This type of wisdom has been around since the beginning of time. The words that our parents/guardians will teach us, and how to follow those laid out practices of God.

Earthly wisdom - refers to the knowledge a person acquires from his/her time spent around the environment. It is simply the understanding of past and presents using all that you've experienced before. In such cases, you and I are wiser to handle unexpected decisions.

Satanic wisdom - refers to as the most unspiritual, demonic attributes that a person cultivates in this mind. It's mainly the roots of jealousy, selfishness, hate, greed, lust and desires to hurt or harm another.

Why we need Wisdom?

To be truly successful and happy, now and forever, we must plant the seed of wisdom in our minds.

You can be as wealthy or famous but if your actions and thoughts aren't disciplined accordingly, then you are nowhere close in preforming your humane duties as individuals.

The questions are raised, are you threading the path you claim you are walking? Do you realize your purpose as a human being on this earth?

How you answer yourself is what will define you. It doesn't matter what you say to others. Lying to yourself is worse than lying to others.

I must accept and agree that I was immature 10 years ago, I didn't have enough to openly express like I do now. 

Back then I thought I knew everything but the truth remains I still have so much more to learn.

None of us are perfect or were born with intelligence. It starts with small steps of educating yourself and grasping from what you've gone through or learned.

I surely did, took efforts to grow and flourish in every way I could, and you can too. Along the process of learning, remember to share and inspire those around you.

The benefits are numerous and I've listed a few for you:

• With more wisdom, you can give a better judgment on specific topics
• You are stronger and confident with yourself
• As wiser you are, you are more self-centered, knowing your strengths and weakness
• Your character is developed and in a position to counsel or coach another  
• Wisdom accomplished increases your ability to influence others, thus spreading again and again
• Being wiser makes you a good articulated communicator 

Becoming wiser is not a want but a need for you to be! 

Now reading this might sound a bit overwhelming about how much for you will need to put in. Don't get frustrated, knowledge is found anywhere. 

The internet is a great medium for learning. Instead of spending hours and hours scrolling and browsing social media, Netflix, etc. 

Read an article on a subject you don't know about, listen to a podcast, read a book, etc. 

Discover your inner strength to learning and in this way, you can share with others.

Conclusion

Are you doing everything to becoming wiser?

How many of you use those extra hours and minutes to read on a valuable book, etc.

Are you ready to welcome the changes you have been wanting to make?

I'm here to help you. The more you learn, the more you will grow.

Knowledge is power and power you hold to change yourself and the world.

When you have a desire to be wise, you like to understand the way things work and be able to give an accurate answer.

Once you take lead, everything becomes easier, eventually, you will inspire change.

Based on my experience, I came to the realization that until you step out and up, you will never cease to be what you want to be.

Don't wait another day, become a wiser mind and help others too.

I hope to have your engagement here and looking forward to providing all that will help you fight those challenges.

Thank you for your time and happy reading!